Love...and other Basic Calculations...!!

Love is just a calculation. Before you decide to get into “something special” with someone, there are a certain things you calculate and derive a conclusion, depending on which, you may or may not have a relationship.

First, you calculate if the other person is good enough for you to date or not. Is he tall enough? Is she hot enough? Is he rich enough? Is she hot enough? Is he interesting/funny enough? Is she hot enough? Is he intelligent enough? Is she hot enough?

Most people you meet never match the criteria you set. They are a total reject. But then, there are a few, who do fulfil your criteria. And then, another set of calculations start. You calculate if getting into something with that person would affect your mental peace.

Would he treat me well? Would he care enough? Would she be too demanding? Would he be too possessive? Would she be too sluttish? Would he give me enough time? Would she be too clingy?

And then – the most popular question of all times – Would this interfere with my career?

And what if your special one lives miles apart from you? You would do anything and everything to make it work. The beginning is awesome, with you never leaving your IM, telling your love how much you miss their presence. But it grows old, and you start to struggle. And then again – career.

But you like each other! So what is the solution? A strictly- open relationship, that does not demand too much of your time and does not have the hassle of a real relationship. And you get all the perks! What can be better?

Ha! As if love follows a plan.point stays – Love cannot be planned!

It is like gravity. You can try to go against it, but you really can’t. You can jump off a cliff, trying to fly, but you will not. You will fall. It is inevitable. Similarly, falling in love cannot be prevented. It is inevitable too.

And if you are smart enough to recognise that it is real, you should be smart enough to fight for it and never let it go. Life does not give you too many second chances.

Don’t let love ever pass you by.
This post is taken from a book – Accidentally In Love! It is a story of people finding true love, losing it and . . . well, read the book to know the rest of it! I hope you like it.
xoxo